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"Most
things can be preserved in alcohol; dignity, however, is not one
of them." |
No matter how hard you work a program of dual recovery,
there's always a chance that you will face unexpected cravings, a relapse
of your chemical dependency, or a flare-up of psychiatric symptoms. Having
a plan of action thought out and written down ahead of time to help cope
with these situations can be extremely beneficial. Below are several
example forms that may help you identify resources and create your own
action plans. It's good to be prepared for emergencies ahead of time.
Unexpected cravings happen to just about every person
recovering from chemical dependency. They can be triggered by something
seen on TV or in a magazine, a smell or sound that you might associate
with drinking or using, a particular feeling or mood, and sometimes they
just seem to come out of nowhere. Sometimes they can be so powerful that
you almost feel the taste in your mouth or swear you are smelling
marijuana. Nine times out of ten these sudden urges hit when we 'are'
in a position to act on them. No one is around--no one is watching. It is
very important to have a plan for these times. In the first months of
recovery our most natural inclination will probably be to satisfy our
cravings--that is a symptom of the disease of chemical dependency.
Will-power and good intentions are not enough. We need to take an
alternative course of action. To sit and wrestle with the cravings is an
unbearable situation for an addict or alcoholic. Instead, we have learned
that immediately calling another recovering person is very helpful.
Getting yourself to a meeting or recovery club can be a life-saver. Other
times going for a walk or vigorous exercise does the trick. We can reach
out to our higher power for assistance and strength. Over time these
cravings diminish in intensity, however, people who have achieved
long-term abstinence have learned to always take them seriously.
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Action plan for when cravings and urges to drink
or use strike |
Five people I can call the minute I get a craving
or urge to drink.
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Five
things I can do to get my mind off of using or drinking.
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Though lapses in our abstinence aren't desired, all need
not be lost if and when they occur. Though painful we can learn from our
experiences in hopes to not repeat them. It is best to get right
back into recovery and regain our abstinence as soon as possible. The
disease of chemical dependency is cunning, baffling, and powerful. If we
are prepared for the possibility of a lapse ahead of time it is more
likely that we can keep it from becoming a full blown relapse.
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Action plan if I relapse |
These are some warning signs and relapse factors
to watch out for.
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If I should lapse I need to tell these people:
- __________________________________________
- __________________________________________
- __________________________________________
- __________________________________________
- __________________________________________
I need to
do these things to make sure it doesn't happen again.
- __________________________________________
- __________________________________________
- __________________________________________
- __________________________________________
- __________________________________________
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At times, a flare-up of symptoms can render us incapable
of making sound choices for recovery. This can happen in spite of our best
efforts and all the progress we’ve made in dual recovery. Sometimes our
job is just to weather the storm in the most constructive way we can and
keep in mind that these are no-fault illnesses. Some members have found
that having a plan of action in place before such a flare-up happens can
be a great comfort and powerful recovery tool. They discuss a plan of
action ahead of time with professional helpers, their sponsor, family, and
friends. Such a plan may make the difference between a mild flare-up of
symptoms and a full-blown relapse of our addiction and psychiatric
illness.
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If my psychiatric symptoms return or worsen |
These are some warning signs that may precede a
flare-up of symptoms.
- __________________________________________
- __________________________________________
- __________________________________________
- __________________________________________
- __________________________________________
If I should experience a flare-up I need to tell
these people.
- __________________________________________
- __________________________________________
- __________________________________________
- __________________________________________
- __________________________________________
I need to
do these things to cope in a positive way:
- __________________________________________
- __________________________________________
- __________________________________________
- __________________________________________
- __________________________________________
If I have a psychiatric emergency:
I would like to see Doctor __________________
I authorize ____________________ to take care of
_________________________ and __________________ |
At times certain psychiatric problems and serious relapses can cause affected individuals to deny the problem and refuse help. These situations can lead to emergency or involuntary hospitalization. It helps to discuss these possibilities ahead of time with our sponsors, supportive friends, concerned family members, and our helping professionals. By sharing your concerns you can let your support network know how they might best help you if ever
the need arises.
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